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Don't Get Faked With Your Personal Development Efforts! |
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Written by Kenny Lindsay
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Thursday, 07 August 2008 11:42 |
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At times in life it can be difficult to be one hundred percent honest with ourselves when it comes to the actions we take. In a self development programme this occurs if you get 'faked out' and pretend to yourself that you're taking the correct actions when you actually aren't. In the following article there are many extremely good methods to make sure you're not faking reality and are making great progress in all of the important areas of your life.
by KennyLindsay
At times in life it can be difficult to be one hundred percent honest with ourselves when it comes to the actions we take. In a self development programme this occurs if you get 'faked out' and pretend to yourself that you're taking the correct actions when you actually aren't. In the following article there are many extremely good methods to make sure you're not faking reality and are making great progress in all of the important areas of your life.
One of the most effective ways to know for sure if you're making progress with your goals is to track it. Tracking can easily be done by making a chart so that you can have proof in front of your eyes which shows whether you're actually doing what you should be doing. If you've committed to a home study course in order to learn some new skills and decide to study for 40 minutes everyday then you can make a chart, hang it up on your wall and then you'll have accurate records in front of you everyday which show precisely what steps you've taken towards the goal.
It is very important that you're truthful with yourself and don't try and deny reality and the facts. Some schools of thought in self development advise using affirmations in order to get your actions to improve but it's important not to mistake saying the affirmations for actually taking the necessary action to produce the desired result. Affirmations or no affirmations, you're going to have to take action if you want to achieve goals beyond what you've previously achieved.
The self development industry at its best is a wonderful source of inspiration and useful advice, however, at its worst it can lead to delusion and looking for miracles which aren't going to happen. It's important to evaluate the self development resources that you are using to improve your life and make sure they are full of solid principles that have worked for many people for many years and aren't just the latest fads or hype designed to drain your wallet and leave you with nothing but dashed hopes.
Be honest about the conditions you're faced with and the opportunites that are available. For example, if you are now 45 years old and just starting in business then to set a goal to get in the Forbes 100 Richest List would be a poor target and almost impossible. However,if you set a goal to take the company to seven figure in revenue within 5 years you'd have a target which was realistic but still very challenging and exciting.
It's a good idea to get a friend who's also setting goals and doing positive things with his/her life. If you can pair and help each other as well as monitoring each others' progress then it can be an extremely powerful influence on both of your lives. It's important in this sort of relationship that you don't let each other slip up and fall into bad habits.
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